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SURVIVING TO THRIVING
THE MINDSET SHIFT- Those who have been victimized often continue self-identifying as victims long after their abuse. They get stuck feeling helpless, hopeless and powerless over their feelings, their choices, and their life. This hinders recovery, redemption and restoration growth. Getting proper care, support and resources at the right time is important for recovery. The road forward is about moving beyond your feelings and beliefs of powerlessness. Learned helplessness is
Emily Stephenson
Jan 13 min read


Shame Lifter
What if you no longer had to carry shame? The guilt. The heaviness. The quiet voice that keeps replaying what happened—what you’ve done, or what was done to you. Shame needs secrecy, silence and judgement to grow in the inner man. (says Gods word Psalm 139, Psalm 51 & Brene Brown... haha) What if that voice wasn’t the loudest one in your life anymore? Together, we’ll trace where that shame first took root. The Holy Spirit will gently expose the lies you’ve been believing, the
Emily Stephenson
Nov 20, 20252 min read


"Healing the Devastating Wounds of Intimate Betrayal: A Journey to Wholeness and Freedom in Christ"
Breathe — You Are Not to Blame Dear Woman/Man of Worth: Breathe. Let me tell you right now — this is not your fault. You didn’t cause this. You are not responsible for someone else’s sin, addiction, or betrayal. What you are responsible for is your healing, and you can heal. You can recover. You can thrive again. Allow Yourself to Rest and Begin to Feel Rest is not just physical — it's emotional, mental, spiritual. For me, rest began when I stopped minimizing what happened.
Emily Stephenson
Oct 5, 20255 min read


Mending broken relationships
CanvasChristfollower.com Portrait Credit Many things in life hinder our abilities to achieve the life we want. Our wounds, defense...
Emily Stephenson
Jun 25, 20252 min read


masks off
Jesus Christ, The Suffering Servant that "despised the shame and endured the cross" Hebrews 12:2 CanvasChristfollower.com Portrait In...
Emily Stephenson
Jun 24, 20252 min read


Intimacy
"Women and Jesus Praying Wall Art CanvasChristfollower.com Portrait INTIMACY WITH CHRIST Intimacy, requires trust in relationships. It...
Emily Stephenson
Jun 24, 20252 min read


Tributes
To Cristina Gurney A beautiful soul. One whom I miss and I wish I would have gotten to know deeply. The loss of your life has forever changed me and the way I do friendships. Proverbs 2 “Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.“ Prov 20:5. Oh how I wished this was true of our sisterhood. Looking forward to our time in heaven! You are forever missed and cherished! My Abba, Jesus, you are my delight, my treasure! Thank you fo
Emily Stephenson
Jun 11, 20253 min read


The power of using Your voice
Be BRAVE!!! You may wonder, why would I need to share these deep things that I have expereinced in my life. I did too. I want to...
Emily Stephenson
Jun 11, 20253 min read


Made in Gods image
Image from Christfollower.com God designed each person in His image with these distinct parts of us that should be working together...
Emily Stephenson
Jun 9, 20253 min read


Supportive Resources & Healthy Community Groups
Resource Websites: We believe God desires you to be secure, safe and free irregaurdless if your spouse changes or not. The Mend Project - Support for victims of relational abuse TheBrave One- Support for the impact of Intimate Sexual Betrayal His Invisible Hands - Healing Restoration Groups & Individual Mentorship/Coaching The Relationship Resource - Online/in person Workshops & Marriage Intensives The Allender Center - Healing journeys for sexual abuse Pacific Counseli
Emily Stephenson
Jan 27, 20252 min read


Identify & Report Abuse
Making a Report for Sexual Abuse If you witness or suspect abuse, please contact the Abuse Hotline at 1-800-96-Abuse (1-800-962-2873) The California Abuse Hotline accepts reports 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, of known or suspected child abuse, neglect or abandonment. If you ever suspect a minor is in immediate danger, contact 911 There are four ways to make a report: Telephone: Please immediately contact the Child Protection Hotline at (800) 540-4000 If Calling from Outs
Emily Stephenson
Jan 27, 20253 min read

